If you want to experience something different every time, you can choose one of the three types of massage offered. They all share full nudity and care for every part of the body.
Tantra Intense Massage: This is the most classic, intense, and technical massage. It combines the rapid movements of Swedish massage with the art of Tantra. It equally focuses on every part of the body and offers a moderate lymph-draining effect.
Tantra Flow Massage: This massage style is inspired by Hawaiian Lomi Lomi and is characterized by long, moderately intense movements that reproduce the effect of ocean waves. It involves half of the body at a time.
Tantra Sensual Massage: This is the most delicate and slow massage. It resembles a long caress, but it is performed with presence and an engaging touch. It always considers the entire body and leaves the feeling of being touched by many hands.
All types of massage have the same duration and cost.
Is decency, when it comes to the naked body, normal? Natural? After years of working on myself, I feel I can clearly say NO.
Even though culturally we often attribute a positive connotation to it, the term “decency” literally means “shame.” And shame should be the result of something dishonorable, wrong. While there is nothing wrong with a naked body and, for some reason, we accept the nudity of a child, but not that of an adult.
Sometimes we attribute to decency the meaning of privacy, but once again, why should we be private? What do we have to hide? We hide what we do not like, what we do not want to be seen. While there is perfection and beauty in every human body, and it is time to drop the fig leaf.
Reflecting on these issues is pointless if the emotion we feel strongly opposes logic: if we do not feel comfortable with nudity, it is because of the strongly repressive approach to the body and sex in which we have grown up. However, this does not exempt us from consciously working on it, and sooner or later, we should all do it.
If you have the opportunity, let yourself be influenced by the Central-Northern European culture, in which the naked body is seen in a completely natural way, even in mixed-gender contexts; try a spa or a naturist beach and enjoy the sense of simplicity and naturalness that these experiences can give. Or, if you want to go further, try a Tantra massage.
The massage table is ready. The oil and the room are warm.
She will arrive in 15 minutes, but I have plenty of time to gather my energies.
I close my eyes and start to breathe deeply. When the time comes, Kundalini will have to do its part. Pleasure depends on it, but nature will take its course.
Inhale, exhale… I ground myself and draw strength from the earth.
Inhale, exhale… I bring the vital fluid up high until I feel it in my head. Today it takes a little longer.
When she lays naked on the table and closes her eyes, she will be like all the others but unique at the same time. Perfect as nature intended, whether she is 25 or 50 years old, with a lean or soft physique.
I put my hands on my heart while mentally reviewing the movements. I will spread the oil before starting, so I don’t have to think about it anymore. The body will be shiny under the candlelight and slippery under my touch.
I will continue incessantly with this breath, while taking care of her. It will become our breath, because even if she probably won’t notice, the rhythm of the air synchronizes between us when the dance begins.
Strong on the feet, intense on the legs and glutes, gentle on the belly… even though the most sensitive parts are those that many other massages overlook, those that even during the heat of passion most partners forget.
The hand plows decisively between the breasts, caresses the sternum, and kisses the mound of Venus; it delicately wraps around the inner thigh, brushing against the labia majora and ending its journey on the hips.
I briefly open my eyes. Is the chair close enough? I cannot stand when I dedicate myself to her pleasure, because that is a never-ending moment, to which I will devote all the time that is needed. There, heaven and earth meet for an infinite moment.
When the shivers and tremors subside, I will rest my wrists for a moment and wipe my forehead. After washing my hands and bringing the oil cup closer, I will massage her face and head for the last few minutes. Almost no one does it, but that is the part I prefer.
The background music brings me back to reality. And it will do the same for her when, after 90 minutes, I whisper softly, “we’re done.” But before she fully awakens, I will cover her body with the towel and let her rest for another five minutes before getting dressed.
If there is one thing that a massage therapist can never, ever know, it is what their massage is really like, because you either give the massage or receive it. You can’t do both. So, you can only know your massage through the testimony of other people who receive it. And even in this case, the experience is certainly different from words.
I practice tantric massage only on women, given the intimate nature of this discipline. But every single woman on whom I do it is a universe of her own, each one is completely different from the others.
The body is different because each one grows with her own characteristics, emotions are different because each one has experienced her own “traumas,” character is obviously different because each one has her own preferences, and pleasure is extraordinarily different because, unlike men who are much simpler, every woman has a unique and different innervation of the intimate parts.
Moreover, not being a woman, I had to learn mainly through feedback from women (who are not always willing to talk), as well as through observation and sensitivity.
Fortunately, there is calibration, that is, the ability to read a person from the signals they unconsciously transmit. Breath says a lot about a woman experiencing pleasure, eyes say a lot (which are generally closed during the massage), but also skin, body temperature, and changes in the most sensitive areas.
Fortunately, there is intuition and empathy, that is, the ability to feel a person experiencing pleasure, even if this quality requires years of training.
Fortunately, there is energetic resonance, which in some special situations allows you to experience the same ecstasy that she experiences.
I have received several massages in my life. And you can tell when the person doing it is present in their gestures and when they are not; when the massage is done with love and when it is not. Then there are all the other issues, such as technical skill, intensity, dedication in providing a service, and preparing the environment for the best.
Two massages per day. Not one more. If I were to do more than two massages a day, they would lose their magic, my mind would go elsewhere, and my hands would act automatically. The beauty of it is to be present, possibly with two people, breathing together.
Certainly, each person will choose the massage therapist they like best, the one they feel most in tune with (especially if we’re talking about tantra!) and you can’t please everyone. But one thing is certain: the pursuit of perfection and love in massage makes a difference and I have always given it my all.
